NO NEED TO BLOW HIS MIND…
I am always fascinated with women who feel the need to find some trick or technique to “Blow their man’s mind” in bed. Cosmopolitan and other magazines have sold millions of copies with headlines on the covers assuring its female readers that it had sexual tips or tricks destined to make her a better lover and/or more desirable to her man.
As I have stated before in prior blog posts— men are not complicated.
The dream woman of most healthy adult men is a sexual partner who prioritizes his pleasure. She understands that sex is an intimate need held by most men in high regard— somewhere below breathing, but above eating or sleeping. I would gladly give up a meal or a night of sleep for some sexy attention from the woman I love. And I’m not alone. Women who understand, respect and nurture that need always have very satisfied partners.
Most women possess an ever-present and usually-concealed sexual capacity. While it takes as little as a sexy smile from their partner for some women to unleash their sexual powers, other women require more effort. I once had a woman tell me I never looked sexier than when I was wearing boxer shorts in her kitchen while washing her dirty dishes. I’ve never washed more dishes in my life than during the months she and I dated. Let’s just say she was extremely… appreciative of my dishwashing efforts. 😉
What the magazines clearly are capitalizing upon is the insecurity of women resulting from the images of unrealistic size zero bodies with D cup breasts plastered all throughout our culture. Since most women’s bodies look different than those they observe on television or in movies and magazines, many women feel compelled to have “something else” to offer a man sexually. Maybe that thing she read about in that magazine will make her man forget that she doesn’t resemble that super-hot young actress that all of the men are fawning over.
One of the things I try to do for every new client during our first session together is to recognize something particularly unique about her that I find attractive. A woman who looks great with short hair because it emphasizes her beautiful face should hear that. As should a woman who has worked hard to develop a very fit body. Or a woman with such a heavenly body that you would never know she’d given birth to three children. Or a woman with an incredible smile. Or a woman with really striking eyes or other facial features. Or a woman with really sexy nail polish. Or a woman with a large scar evidencing her courageous survival from skin cancer. Or a woman with gloriously sculpted eyebrows. Or a woman with a sexy tattoo. You get the point. Find your lady’s unique sexiness and let her know you recognize it and appreciate it. That’s on you, gentlemen.
What too many women don’t fully realize is that they are already sexy. All they need to do is tap into those unique elements of themselves that exude sex appeal. Throughout most of my life I have been reasonably fit and most of the women I have dated have been similarly built. I once began dating a beautiful Latina woman who was curvier than any other woman I had ever dated. I will never forget the first time we were intimate. Unlike most women introducing their body to me shyly, even covering parts they were insecure about, this woman was different. She triumphantly removed her clothes in a flash and looked right in my eyes confidently as if to say, “look at this goddamn sexy body of mine!” It was definitely a turning point for me. Because I realized that the sexual confidence this woman had so thoroughly overwhelmed any imperfections she had. It’s almost as if she said, “here you go… lucky you gets to have all of this!”
And once you’re able to embrace your own sexual self and you’re ready to drive your man crazy, the answer is very simple: enthusiasm.
Of late, a pretty young lady has become famous for enthusiastically sharing her oral sexual… technique. Known as the “hawk tuah” girl (real name: Hailey Welch), many women simply cannot understand why she suddenly skyrocketed to zillion-hit status all over social media. There are many prettier girls who are raunchier, more scantily-clad, or otherwise more desirable.
So why is she so popular? It’s her unrestrained enthusiasm.
Not only does Miss Welch shamelessly share her personal… style of performing oral sex on her boyfriend, she does it in a way showing that she is a confident and enthusiastic lover. When her boyfriend makes a sexual request, you can be sure this lady is happy to oblige. She is so game to please her man that she actually brags about her skill with a lovely smile on her innocent face. If her man asks her to try something new or different in bed, this little lady is clearly going to rise to the challenge with eagerness and a desire to please.
So ladies, you already possess the sex appeal necessary to drive your man wild! Before you waste money on that magazine or book promising ways to drive your man crazy in bed… consider that maybe all that’s missing is a little bit more enthusiasm. 🤗
YoniMaster Rick
