FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS
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If this is your first session, we have already agreed upon a time and place and spoken on the phone. On the day of the service, I will text you to alert you that I am on my way, as well as when I have arrived at your hotel or other agreed location.
When I enter your room, we will sit down first and discuss what to expect during the appointment and confirm what you hope to gain from the experience. I will confirm that the environment and music are comfortable for you, and I will answer any questions you have before we begin.
Only after you are comfortable and ready to proceed do we begin the session. The therapy begins with you lying comfortably as we perform a short breathing exercise together. You will also be given instructions which will help you communicate and guide the process when necessary to ensure you obtain the best experience possible.
After you are relaxed and ready to proceed, I perform a lengthy and tantalizing gentle touch treatment about your upper and lower body. It is extremely important that you are relaxed and adequately stimulated before we proceed to the most personal parts of the process.
Sessions do not involve any type of forceful muscle manipulation or deep tissue massage. Rather, it involves gentle, soothing and meditative touch. Throughout the session, you’ll enjoy a variety of rhythms, pressures and intensities customized to your liking and edging you closer and closer to a wonderful state of bliss.
Just turn off your mind, lay back and open yourself up to a liberating, nurturing and transformative experience. Our time together is all about you.
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I meet clients at an agree-upon location, usually a hotel room or location provided and paid for by you and confirmed by me. If you are visiting from out of town, I can recommend suitable accommodations in different price ranges and neighborhoods.
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Sessions typically take between 3 and 4 hours and I will never rush to finish a session. Some women simply take longer to get a fulfilling session, and I am okay with using additional time without charging for it.
Sessions can be intense, and clients generally find 3.5 hours to be sufficient time for a completely fulfilling experience. If you’d like a longer session, we can discuss prior to the session.
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Before meeting guests, I like to get a sense of who they are on both a personal and physical level in order to provide a more tailored service. I request the age to ensure she is an adult and to gauge the amount of time needed for a complete service (younger women tend to complete the service more quickly). And I request the height because I know to bring additional oils for a woman who is taller. The photo is requested solely to ensure that the person who meets me is indeed the person who contacted me and scheduled the service. Any current photo that shows your face is sufficient.
All information provided is deleted after the first session and not required again for subsequent bookings.
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Yes. Protecting your privacy is of utmost importance, and I am committed to the highest levels of confidentiality, discretion and trust. Any and all communication between us- whether online, over the phone, or in person, is held in the strictest confidence. Always.
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Every woman’s body is different, and responds differently to touch. While most guests leave very happy, it would be inappropriate to guarantee full satisfaction 100% of the time. I can, however, guarantee a delightful and memorable experience that you will hopefully cherish and share with others.
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A medical professional, I typically wear either a polo shirt or my favorite comfortable medical scrubs. In the past, I have dressed more casually for clients, but I find that by dressing in a pseudo-uniform, clients seem more comfortable relaxing and enjoying the personal services provided.
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Payment instructions are provided at the time of booking. Options are provided to pay with cash or via CashApp. Payment is expected at the beginning of the session.
Tips and gratuities are appreciated, but not required. I usually advise that you should only tip if you are fully satisfied with the services provided. All tips should be in cash.
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Standard services are limited to manual touch. If you have something more in mind, feel free to ask, as sessions are customized around your preferences and wishes. There are very few requests I haven’t heard. I understand that everyone is different and I will never judge anyone for asking me for anything that they sincerely think will enhance their experience.
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This is actually a very common question. Many women really enjoy touching my hands or arms while I am performing my services, and they will occasionally do this to help guide my movements. This is fine. For any more intimate requests, I simply recommend that you ask first.
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You will get the most satisfaction out of your session by letting me know what’s working for you. And you don’t necessarily need to be verbal. Through my years of experience, I’ve become very good at reading body language. And subtle signals like a sigh, moan or wiggle are perfectly fine ways to convey your approval of certain modes of touch, or areas you’d like special attention paid to- all without ever saying a word. Nonetheless, you will be instructed easy cues you can provide during our session to ensure you get the best experience possible.
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As you will be undressed for some of the session, I recommend you wear something comfortable that can be easily removed. The most common garments worn by clients are either a bathrobe, comfortable pajamas or sweatpants and t-shirt (with as much or as little underneath as you’d like).
You will remain dressed during the breathing exercise, then you may remove your clothing as slowly or quickly as you are comfortable thereafter as the session continues.
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There are two things you should do before every session: (1) shower within one hour of my arrival (and it does not matter at all to me if your hair is wet or dry); and (2) make sure you are well hydrated before our session (I recommend 1-2 bottles of water in the 2 hours before our session. Don’t worry, you can take as many bathroom breaks as you need during our session.) And you can rest assured that I will be clean shaven and freshly showered too when I arrive for our session.
Your personal grooming need only be comfortable to you. If you feel more comfortable shaved or extra tidy, that’s fine. Wild or “au naturale” - that’s fine too. The most important thing is that you are comfortable. I can navigate all terrain.
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Of course. With all new clients, I schedule a phone call a day or two prior to the service. This provides you with an opportunity: (1) to confirm that I am real and professional; and (2) to address any questions or concerns that you might have. Most of the time, after a brief call, it is much less awkward when we finally meet.
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If you are dreaming of Brad Pitt or some amazing looking man, I’m not him.
But I am tall (6’3” to be exact) and have been blessed with large, strong, skillful hands and a strong body. While I have practiced yoga and hot yoga for many years, my body is not a typical skinny yoga body. A former college athlete, I’m a while, forty-something male. Clean-cut, well-educated, world-traveled (I received part of my formal training overseas), I have dark hair, hazel eyes, and will be clean shaven and freshly showered when I arrive for our session.
I have been providing this service for several years, and have never been turned away- so I guess I can’t be that tough to look at. ;)
If you absolutely must see what I look like, I can provide a current G-rated photo of my face or body, but I may obscure part of my face to maintain my privacy.
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For your health and mine, I’ve implemented a number of important safety measures. I am vaccinated and twice boosted. Whether you would prefer I wear a mask and/or gloves is confirmed prior to the session and I will take all precautions that you require in order to feel comfortable.
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No and No.
First, while I have never personally met Dr. M., I have received nothing but positive reports from clients who have also seen him. They each regard him as polite, professional, and very good.
I can't say the same for any other "Rick" offering either free or discount yoni massages. In general, I recommend any woman interested in a yoni massage stay far away from anyone offering it for free or who claims to have learned to perform them "online." I am certain that both Dr. M and I have received formal training and that we also have professional backgrounds and educations. Be mindful of the old saying "you get what you pay for." Don't skimp on such an important personal service! Better to save up and get a much better and more professional service at a later date when you can afford it.