YONI MASSAGE TRAINING FOR couples…

“Give a man a fish, and you feed him for a day; teach a man to fish and you feed him for a lifetime.” — Confucius

“Give his wife great pleasure and she will enjoy it for days… teach him to give her great pleasure and she can enjoy it all her life.” — YoniMaster Rick

For a very long time, I have been asked by women to teach their man how to properly handle her body. The time has finally come for me to begin sharing the skills I have fine-tuned over the last few years.

When a husband reaches out for a service for his wife— I am usually very hesitant. The small number of husbands I have allowed to observe and occasionally participate in the services I provide for the wife has resulted in some very difficult situations. There was the man who angrily handled business phone calls while I tried to provide a calming and peaceful service to his wife. There was the man who insisted on talking dirty (and a bit rudely) to his wife during the session. Then there was the husband who I caught trying to covertly videotape my services. And the man who suddenly appeared, naked, through one of those adjoining doors connecting the room to the one next door (I always check when I see these now).

But more problematic than the occasional distracting antics of the husbands is the fact that many wives simply cannot fully enjoy the experience of my services with their husband present. Furthermore, while the idea of her husband and another man both present in an intimate setting with her might seem like fun, when it actually happens, it might actually be uncomfortable or even overwhelming. I suspect that, rather than focusing on my hands and the soothing touch being provided, she is instead “in her own head,” worrying about what her husband is seeing or what he is thinking. Because of this, wives with their husband present typically take much, much longer to enjoy the experience.

So for a very long time, I would carefully vet husbands seeking my services for their wife. I would advise against it and inform him that I would not allow a booking until I had spoken to her on the phone. Anytime a husband objected to me speaking directly with his wife, the service didn’t happen. As I explain, my services are focused on the woman. Unless I am convinced by her that she can be fully comfortable with him present in the room, I will not do it. However, there have been a handful of women who have expressed, clearly and confidently, that they could be very comfortable with their husband present. Some of these wives or couples have experience swinging or in other group situations. And one recent client assured me that she had “no problem at all being selfish.” Some of these comfortable couples have been extremely lovely and have had very good experiences with me.

Where a husband is willing to sit back and observe, paying close attention, I can see him watching my maneuvers and tactics which successfully bring her pleasure. For these well-behaved and attentive husbands, I encourage them to participate after her first climax. At that point, her body is primed for more attention, and I can have him join me for a loving, “four-handed” experience. Many women really enjoy the compassionate attention of two men focused solely upon her pleasure. So long as she feels safe and her body and mind are free, I am usually able to show him, firsthand, some techniques that she will surely enjoy. The husbands are often amazed at what sensational impact even the most delicate and gentle movements can have on their wife. I give very pointed instruction regarding highly sensitive areas of her body which he (and sometimes she) may not know about. By the end of our typical 3-4 hour session, he will obtain practical skills that will assuredly leave his wife with an improved sexual outlook and often also a very big smile on her face. 😊

At the end of a successful couple training session, I am happy to fade into the background as I pack up my equipment to leave. I am so happy to see the couple embracing, face-to-face, smiles on both of their faces. I have observed some of the most incredible loving glances and conversations between a happy husband and his beautiful sexually-satisfied wife. Sometimes the passion is so great between them that I know that the sex they will soon be having, after I leave, will ignite their love for each other and their sense of connectedness. These moments are particularly fulfilling for me.

It is an obvious fact that training husbands my well-developed methods will be bad for my business (fewer repeat clients, etc.). Nevertheless, I believe that the incredible benefit for couples whose male partner is suddenly equipped with new tools virtually guaranteed to increase her overall sexual satisfaction— is worth sharing. So beginning now, couples seeking an instructional session need only fill out a booking request and check the box for a couple instructional session.

For those of you reading this article, please take a moment and submit a comment letting me know your thoughts on a couple session:

A- No way! I could never get comfortable with my husband in the room.

B- Sorry I am way too jealous to handle another man with his hands on my wife.

C- I might enjoy this but I’m pretty sure my partner would never go for it.

D- I know my partner might go for it, but I don’t think I could get comfortable enough to enjoy it myself.

E- Hell yeah! Where do we sign up?

Thanks for the feedback… and for reading my blog!

YoniMaster Rick