I’m sorry to have to write this, but there has been a spate of last-minute cancellations of my service over the last few months. It always causes me inconvenience but I am more sorry for the clients who asked for the time slot that had been booked, who I had to tell that I was sorry but we’d need to find another time. While I understand that occasionally cancellations are beyond our control and unavoidable, I am going to share some insight into the most common reasons for cancellation, as well as what I think every new client should consider before filling out my booking form and clicking that ‘Submit’ button.

1. Last Minute Nervousness- Very Reasonable.

I believe this is the most common reason for a late cancellation by a new client. Even though we have texted back and forth and even spoken on the telephone, as we get close to the date of the service, the fear and anxiety can feel overwhelming. And rightfully so. My service is an extremely intimate introduction. Most women disrobe and make themselves intimately available to very few people in their lifetime. Most of the time, there are weeks or months of trust and comfort that have been established before a woman gives someone access to her most private places. So to the extent my brief introduction, however comforting, suddenly feels inadequate when you are waiting alone in a hotel room for me to arrive- I understand. However, I have given reserved time to you and for the very special services for which you have sought me out. Please also consider me when you are feeling nervous.

I’m actually nervous too. Even though I have been doing this for a long time, I still feel the stir of butterflies as I knock on the door. I am worried that you might not like how I look or how I’ve dressed. But for me, I enter your hotel room or home with a clear understanding that I discuss before every service. You are in charge. If you feel uneasy, you can ask me to leave. At any time. A client recently asked me if I have ever been asked to leave in the middle of a session. Yes- it has happened twice. Both were married women who expressed later on that they either felt a strong jolt of guilt or a strong jolt of attraction.

For the former, she felt badly because she knew that her older husband, who could no longer physically satisfy her, would be upset to know that her unquenched sexual desire had impacted her so deeply that she sought me out in order not to cheat on him. That guilt overwhelmed her suddenly and she asked me to leave, which I did. Only after we exchanged texts later was I able to understand.

As for the latter client, she felt deep regret that she had settled for her husband, who she expressed was not worthy of her in any way. She said the time spent talking to me on the phone and before our service was far more fulfilling in many respects than she could have hoped for. She felt I was a kind, intelligent man who showed genuine interest in her and she hadn’t felt that in a very long time. She said the contrast between her husband and I with respect to our interest in her was so glaring that she feared that my services were not going to be enough and that she wanted me to spend the night but did not have the courage to ask. She and I remain friends to this day, she is a regular client, and yes- she did finally divorce him.

So ladies if you are nervous, please understand that I am nervous too. Feel free to read my prior blog post about ‘grabby gals’ and you’ll learn about a myriad of other reasons why I am a bit nervous going in to every session.

If you are nervous- please text me and let me know. Sometimes a quick text or chat on the phone is all you’ll need to receive the bit of comfort and reassurance needed for you to keep your session with me.

2. Buyer’s remorse- Not as Reasonable

Many women feel guilty spending money on themselves. And for those women, the expense of my services can be upsetting when she has had time to think about that cost for a little while. However, most women know that a few hours of pampering at most spas or having your hair done at a high-end salon in New York City costs far more than my services. And while either can be delightful- neither can compare with the impact of my dedicated, skilled services.

For most women to reach out to me and book my services- they do it because deep down, they know what their body needs. Their base instincts understand that they require a sexual charge or awakening. But somewhere between the booking and the date of the service, they decide that their physical and sexual needs are less than the needs of others or the minor financial cost of my services. And let’s be honest— women are hard-wired with maternal instincts that regularly place the needs and wants of others above their own. And it is a sad truth that many women go through their lives regularly prioritizing others above themselves. But for women ready to put their own needs at the end of their “To Do” list, I say “Not so fast!”

I have been told numerous times, and I have countless texts and emails from clients who express that they almost canceled my service— BUT THEY ARE SO GLAD THAT THEY DIDN’T. Often it is not until after my work is done that they can feel the true value of the nourishment and rejuvenation that can only be experienced after their sexual needs are finally met. So if you’re simply feeling guilty about spending the money on yourself- Don’t. Instead, text or call me and I’ll remind you of the reasons you told me you felt you needed the service. If I can alleviate your guilt over spending on yourself- you will be glad you prioritized yourself first for a change.

Finally, I think it is important that for almost every booked session, another returning or new client has likely requested a session at the time I have dedicated for you. So when you cancel at the last minute— think about my other new client who worked up the courage to book for her only night available but was turned away because I had already given my time to you. Or my regular client who always shows up, wanted your time, but was turned away as well. While I don’t dwell on any inconvenience caused to me by cancellations, I am always angry about the other women who might have really needed that time slot you threw away.

I recently had a new client text me the day after our service to tell me that she had several coworkers compliment her on how great she looked that day. She realized that she’d never gotten more than one such compliment in a day at work, and that she attributed her new “glow” to how great her body and soul felt after our session. I have received similar comments many, many times. Even more commonly, my clients report a serious increase in their libido for days or even weeks after our session. Knowing that my services help women feel more connected to their sexual selves is so truly rewarding that I cannot begin to express how incredible it makes me feel to know that I play a role in helping enhance my clients’ lives.

So before you book a session, make sure you are prepared to follow through. If not— you’re letting yourself down… and maybe another woman who really could have used my services.

YoniMaster Rick